When you are harvesting your crops and forget to bring in a bundle of grain from your field, don't go back to get it. Leave it for the foreigners, orphans and widows. Then the LORD your God will bless you in all you do.
~Deuteronomy 24:19

Saturday, February 06, 2010

Cookie Nightmare (I mean fun!!!)

I do not know why we torture ourselves this way - oh yes, I do - the girls LOVE it!!
Enough with the directions, Dad - let's get to work!!

She was eating flour - oh dear, we need to work on that!



Jada's masterpiece - she goes light on the toppings!

Chloe's - she used the whole bottle of sugar on one cookie!  (Ok, not quite, but close!)

If You Give Becky a Hair Dryer....

If you give Becky a hairdryer, she will start to dry her hair and then realize she needs her cup of coffee. (One CAN NOT dry one's hair without coffee!) Once she gets her cup of coffee, she sees that the coffee filters are almost gone so she needs to add that to the grocery list. Seeing the grocery list posted on the fridge reminds her that she has not cleaned off all of the notes on the fridge lately NOR has she worked on cleaning off the top of the fridge. So, she begins the task of organizing and pitching notes on the fridge and washing the top off. Once she wipes the top of the fridge off, she takes the washcloth down to the basement to wash and see LOADS of laundry that need to be switched, washed, folded, etc. and begins to make her way through those. Seeing the laundry reminds her that she hasn't gone through the girls clothes in awhile to see what fits so she proceeds to sort through drawers and closets to clean out clothes to take to the consignment shop. Sorting through clothes reminds Becky that the girls never got their hair brushed this morning, so she takes the girls into the bathroom to style their hair and sees the VERY smudgey glasses that are surely not helping her girls see!! As she is washing glasses for two girls, she sees her hairdryer and remembers that she was going to dry her hair. 3 hours later she thinks is it finally time to dry her hair and then she remembers she REALLY needs coffee to dry her hair. SEE WHY I DON'T GET MY HAIR DRIED UNTIL NOON!?!?!?!?
(If this resembles If You Give a Mouse a Cookie at all - it is purely coincidental.)

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Amazing Story

Absolutely blessed my socks off! What a family - what a great reminder....

Sunday, January 24, 2010

How Can He Be 12??

There are some things that are just hard to fathom - and I have to say that believing that my little man is 12 is one of them!  We love you Aaron  -you are a blessing!!Aaron is 12!


We have had fun with this birthday - it's possibly the first Jada has seen so she is enamored with the cake, candles, and streamers! It is fun to watch!

Monday, January 18, 2010

Jada Update

It has been forever since I've posted on Jada - really, all is well.  We are so amazingly grateful for the help we are receiving - Jada currently goes to speech therapy, occupational therapy, and will begin developmental preschool here shortly - we never knew all of this was even out there and we are just overwhelmed by the way our speech therapist has "gone to bat" for us.  I mean it - she is amazing!  We are seeing progress - it may seem slow, but it is sure - each day we hear new words and last week we even heard two words strung together!!!  That is cause for celebration over here!

We are still in the middle of our weekly visit to our dentist - yes, it takes time to fill 19 cavities!  But after our first visit where her lip ballooned to 4 times its size, and then proceeded to crack, peel, you name it - we are figuring it out!  Last week our dentist used MUCH less numb-er and that seemed to do the trick - no problems!  So two more visits yet in January and then we hope for a clean bill of "teeth"!!

We took Jada today to Sioux Falls to the "Castle" for her first appointment with her geneticist.  We were so impressed again - both the counselor and Doctor were so helpful to us.  The next step there is to write to our insurance company and request coverage for genetic testing - this is such a vital thing to help us know how to move forward with Jada, and yet our insurance company is not known for covering this.  That's ok - we have a BIGGER God - and we pray that He will intercede for us!


We also had Jada's ultrasound done today - this is on her kidneys and is done once every three months to check for tumors - again, we were told she looked great.  If I had time (ha, ha, ha!!!) one might be tempted to dwell on all of this - maybe worry, be tempted to wonder what in the world we've gotten ourselves into....but I have to say - that is just not where my mind goes (and that is amazing for me - a year ago - ok, six months ago!!!  that would NOT have been the case.)  I praise God for being totally in control - He gave us Jada and He has a plan for her little life.  I praise Him for that -

I would be remiss though if I said we do all of this on our own - we make it because we are upheld in prayer - we thank each of you that cover us in prayer - we feel that and we are grateful.  I must say also - I have always wanted to thank my parents publically - when we first told them we were adopting, it was scary for them, there are SO many unknowns - when we told them we were adopting a second time and this time possibly special needs - they bathed us in prayer, but we knew that that would create fear again.  When we told them about Jada - they never flinched.  They told us to step out in faith - and that was HUGE to us.  And ever since that time - they have been "rocks" for us - even when I doubt, my parents shower Jada with nothing but praise and remind me how far she has come.  I type this with tears in my eyes - we are blessed - we are just SO blessed.  Thank you Dad and Mom for not saying "I told you so" but for loving on us AND Jada.  (And all of our kids for that matter.)  We just have so much to praise God for -

As I watched Jada today at the castle - I saw a little girl that was galloping down the hallway to each and every room she had to visit.  (She doesn't walk anymore - the new Jada mode of transportation is a gallop!!)  She held Chloe's hand, she smiled at people, she said "Hi" to doctors, and came away with a smile on her face.  To me, that is worth it all - I love to see that smile!

Friday, January 15, 2010

Send the Tooth Fairy!!

I can hardly even describe the amount of wiggling that's been going on over here ever since the dentist told Chloe that one of her teeth was getting wiggly.  DAILY wiggling, pushing, asking if it's ready yet - you get the point!  So, last night, when Dad announced it was time to try and pull the tooth - it was quite a deal!  One slight yank, and it was out!  Let the fun begin - Chloe had to show all of her brothers her pearly white prize!  We had to find a special pillow to put it in under her pillow, and we had to make SURE the tooth fairy knew how to find her!  We assured Chloe that she would be found!  As she laid her head down last night, Chloe's words were, "I am afraid I will not be able to sleep tonight - I just can't WAIT for the tooth fairy to come."  Oh my - to be five again!!
First Tooth Out!!

Friday, January 01, 2010

Our Visitors

Grandpa and Grandma FINALLY arrived - the snow subsided enough to let them travel our direction! We have had such fun with them - AND we had to take our annual Christmas (New Year's this year) photo!
Annual Family Photo!!

Sunday, December 27, 2009

Christmas Finery

Thank you, Grandma, for our beautiful Christmas Dresses!!
Christmas Finery

Smiley Girls

Friday, December 25, 2009

Merry MERRY Christmas

From our home to yours.....
Merry Christmas

Santa Kids

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

The Annual Bilby Christmas Letter

We can't decide - we're either very GREEN, or very CHEAP, or very LATE - or maybe all of the above!!! Either way - with a mom that's been house-bound for weeks - this is our way of sending Christmas Greetings this year. We do wish you all a MERRY CHRISTMAS! We are grateful for another year with family and friends!
2009 Christmas Letter

Thursday, December 17, 2009

Movie Night

Movie night now has a whole new meaning. We used to be able to watch quietly and follow storylines with ease, now we have Jada! She does not, never has, enjoyed TV so when we sit down to watch a movie - thus begins Jada's playground. We are all fair game, yes, she even plopped in my lap MANY times, it was just harder to capture when it was my lap! So she hops from couch to couch, brings out many interesting toys, plays the piano, walks around singing, and even stands in front of the television - all Jada antics that keep the rest of us saying, "Is it bedtime yet?"
Meanwhile, the rest of us TRY to keep watching - she did start out by Chloe, but then Chloe missed out on any more "Jada visits"!

Sunday, December 13, 2009

Christmas Program

I hadn't had a great night OR day - so I was thinking I probably wouldn't try to go to the program when Chloe comes up to me - with all the seriousness of a 5 year old drama queen and says, "Mom, you really aren't thinking of missing the Christmas Program, are you!?!?" To which I replied, "Umm, No - definitely not!" So I put some make up on, put a smile on my face, and gingerly went to the program. It was SO good - I am glad I didn't miss it. Let me show you some highlights....Jada clapped after every song - she was the only kid clapping, but she was just TOO proud!!

Jada reclined on Chloe - but hey, what's a sister for!?!?

Sometimes Jada just felt like sitting - hey, who can blame her - 45 min. is a LONG TIME at 3 years old!!

And sometimes it was just a good opportunity to practice tying our shoes - make the most of every moment!!

And now I'm off to head to bed - that took all the gumption right out of me!

Friday, December 04, 2009

What We're SO THANKFUL for this Year!



Last year at this time - this song made us cry - ok, this year it still does! But for MANY different reasons. Praying for those that are STILL waiting - there is nothing easy about that wait - but yes, the end is SO rewarding. Praising God for His Gifts of adoption!

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